Change the Subject again, please.

[XxJennaxX]

You jus made it even worse by the fact you said a year and a half... So what were you, 12 while he was 16? You can honestly say with a straight face that there is nothing wrong with that? You obviously have emotional and psychological issues that you need to have professionally evaluated.



You should be dating potter.

I guess its like a grocery store, you pick the green bananas because you know that eventually they will ripen, although they aren't quite ready to eat.

[Potter]

or an extremely mature girl.

Now I'm pissed that this has gone off topic.
I'm 14, he's 18, get over it, k thx bai.

no offense but I kinda ruled that out because if you were extremely mature you would've just blown casey off instead of letting him get to you.

wrong.
plain and simple.
you don't know me.

No, if you were emotionally mature at all as in which you claim to be, you would know how to manage this and you would know it does and means nothing, nothing has been done, you do not know him, you join a forum and post it to get it off your back. Emotionally mature people do not suffer from this type of anger and frustration withholding. And seeing your other posts I do not feel I even have to make this arguement as to your maturity as your other posts make this arguement for me. as for the dating thing Im quite agianst it as 14 girls are very immature and just finding there loving and emotional side, so they are very fragile and going out with someone of that age and maturity could quite technically make or break you. As with that boy killing the other persons family that would be a fine example of it breaking the opposite party. But this doesent effect me at all nonetheless concern me so I guess we can just sit back and watch how this turns out.

[Potter]

You should be dating potter.

refer to my previous post. Immature females do not mix with mature males whatsoever. PPPL GET SHOTZ

[the gattchoon]

You jus made it even worse by the fact you said a year and a half... So what were you, 12 while he was 16? You can honestly say with a straight face that there is nothing wrong with that? You obviously have emotional and psychological issues that you need to have professionally evaluated.

I had a boyfriend when I was 12, and he was 2-3 years older than me. Big deal. I also had crushes on guys far older than me, being a 12 year old.

A lot of people, regardless of age, have emotional and psychological issues from time to time. Just because she's 14 and gets angry doesn't automatically make her immature. I'm 18 and I get angry, but anger does not equal immaturity.

Since Mamimi is new to the forums, it's only natural to get mad at someone who's directly insulting her and someone dear to her, when she doesn't even know who it is or why it's happening. When I first started posting frequently on these forums, I was getting a little annoyed at some members and their posts, but over time I learned to give it a break, they were all nice to me in the end, and it's all cool. Give Mamimi a break and give her time. You guys bashing on Mamimi & Coty most likely haven't met them, whether by themselves or together; so it's just like Mamimi and Coty getting mad at Casey. It's all arguing without having really known a person, which is unfair on both sides.

And like Dyme pointed out earlier, if you like someone, you like 'em. Right? Even though it may seem awkward or stupid to people outside the relationship, if they're doing well and dandy, that's great. Leave them alone, they're fine.

Sometimes that cliche "Age is just a number" is true.

I may be unrealistic when it comes to me and believing in true love and fairy tale type of shit, but I certainly and will never deny true love when it comes around, and if it's meant to be, then it will be, regardless of what society thinks.

Ho, I'm calling you out again, do you have any say on this or relationships in general since you're in a damn well successful one? =P

[Potter]

wow, theres so many things wrong in that 400lb beast of a post im not even going to begin to counter-argue it, and say how silly and unfounded all of that is. SO IM GOING OUTSIDE HOHUM

[Fagulous]

Isn't this whole thing about people freaking out over 18 years dating 14 year olds histroically a very very recent trend? Hell peoples used to marry thier second younger cousin all the time back in the day. Early 1900s I believe. People didn't start freaking out about until the 1950s when Buddy Holly(or one of those dorky looking 50s singers. who the fuck evar.) porked his cousin and married her. The people only freaked out cause he was a rock star, and rock star play the devil's music, so anything a rock star did was frowned upon by at that time a largily puritanical society.

[XxJennaxX]

Just to point out a fact, I linked a definition for you.


http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/pedophile


read it and think about it a bit.

A pedophile will not stop on his own, and will not turn himself in, because he does not take responsibility for his behavior and denies that he's doing anything harmful. He will abuse until he's caught.

A child not always recognizes when he or she is being abused, manipulated, or groomed by a pedophile. Unless the pedophile is a sexual sadist, he does not have to threaten a child into silence. The trust, gifts, secrecy, and "relationship" are enough.

http://www.mental-health-matters.com

heres another definition

A sexual orientation that has been demonized and criminalized for centuries.

It is having a romantic, physical and sexual attraction towards children.

I really think they should offer this so sex offenders have something to consider.

http://www.csun.edu/~psy453/crimes_n.htm

hate to tell you, no matter how mature you claim (even though its obvious you aren't) to be, you are still legally a child until 16, and thats only by parental consent, or going through the legal processes to be emancipated.

[DiscoBobbyPARANOiA]

So, you people do a good job of minding your own affairs.

Oh, in case you didn't click your own link:

ped·o·phile Audio pronunciation of "pedophile" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (pd-fl, pd-)
n.

An adult who is sexually attracted to a child or children.

Notice it says 'sexually attracted.' So, thanks for assuming we have sex or things of the sort?

Our relationship is none of your concern, and would PERHAPS be if you knew either of us no a higher level than just that of an internet forum.

[/serious]

OH SHI- IM GONA MURDA SUM PEEPS

[Mosh_Mosh_Revolution]

Welcome to the board, Mamimi...

Sorry that your stay here had to start with an encounter with Casey.

He's hard to ignore when he won't leave you alone, but you'll figure out that it takes someone very, very small and pathetic to have to drag people down all the time like he does.

Don't let this keep the away. The rest of the community is pretty decent.


P.S. And Potter? Mature? ...when did this happen?

[Mosh_Mosh_Revolution]

So, you people do a good job of minding your own affairs.

Oh, in case you didn't click your own link:

ped·o·phile Audio pronunciation of "pedophile" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (pd-fl, pd-)
n.

An adult who is sexually attracted to a child or children.

Notice it says 'sexually attracted.' So, thanks for assuming we have sex or things of the sort?

Our relationship is none of your concern, and would PERHAPS be if you knew either of us no a higher level than just that of an internet forum.

[/serious]

OH SHI- IM GONA MURDA SUM PEEPS

Heh, yeah, this is true.

Jenna, you didn't really take the time to click your own link. Bobby's right. I had to wonder what bullshit you were spewing. XD

I'm pretty sure some of these people are right. You don't know them. Your lives don't cross theirs at all. It's none of your business. Period. *shrug*

Considering that you're intersted in someone like Casey more than often smashes your credibility.

[Potter]

Notice it says 'sexually attracted.' So, thanks for assuming we have sex or things of the sort?

ONCE AGIAN YOU PEOPLE ARE SO WGONG FGBNJFNDJBN KIFB NKDFN GUHH


TRUE RELATIONSHIPS WHERE THE TWO PARTIES ACTUALLY LOVE EACHOTHER IS GOING TO INVOLVE THE URGE TO EXPRESS IT THROGUH SEXUAL AND INTAMANT ACTS. YOU JUST PROVED TYASELF WRONG IM DUN ARGUIN WIT U RETATRSDYFUGHJKL

[the gattchoon]

Notice it says 'sexually attracted.' So, thanks for assuming we have sex or things of the sort?

ONCE AGIAN YOU PEOPLE ARE SO WGONG FGBNJFNDJBN KIFB NKDFN GUHH


TRUE RELATIONSHIPS WHERE THE TWO PARTIES ACTUALLY LOVE EACHOTHER IS GOING TO INVOLVE THE URGE TO EXPRESS IT THROGUH SEXUAL AND INTAMANT ACTS. YOU JUST PROVED TYASELF WRONG IM DUN ARGUIN WIT U RETATRSDYFUGHJKL

I edited this out from my previous post, but now I feel it appropriate to shoot out my view on "true relationships" in contrast:

It's simple to list out what we want and what kind of person we look for, but we never really know and understand it all until we meet that one person you're meant to be with. Some things may not seem right to other people, but everything falls exactly into place between you and that one other person. "True love isn't finding the perfect person, it's learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." Each person we date is a potential future in forever, but we don't realize that until we learn how to tolerate those little things that would normally annoy us or push our buttons, until we can compromise, and until you can honestly and truly say "I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I want to grow old with you." Who you decide to spend the rest of your life with should make you happier, not just simply happy... you should be whole without them and they should complement you. That's the independence of it all. When you're ready to make a 360 degree spin in life to accommodate their needs, no matter what the circumstances, when you're 100% willing to start from scratch, then you'll know. When they never turn their back on you no matter what, don't turn your back on them. Love them with everything you have, because even if it's not much to you or to others, it's the world to them. Love isn't a game. It's not about kisses, making out, hugs, nor is it about cuddling, feeling "warm and fuzzy" inside, or sleeping together. It's about taking care of each other and letting go of all selfishness to worry about them and care for them like yourself and showing them how you want to be treated through actions of your own kindness. It's about communication, honesty, and trust. To have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, from this day forward until death do us part... "Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it." ...well, that's my two cents.

And then some.

Though some of you might not believe in that/agree with me, that's what I stand for. Get off of Mamimi & Coty's relationship already, thanks.

[Potter]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOEKHYNK,



FFIND ME ONE FUHIN COULE THATS BEEN TOGETHER MORE THAN 2 YARS THAT HSNT EXPRESSED THERE LOVE PSHYISICLY- - - - - -O WAI--

[Mosh_Mosh_Revolution]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOEKHYNK,



FFIND ME ONE FUHIN COULE THATS BEEN TOGETHER MORE THAN 2 YARS THAT HSNT EXPRESSED THERE LOVE PSHYISICLY- - - - - -O WAI--

Or maybe they both realize that they're too young for something like that. *shrug*

And even if not, where is it any of your business?

[Potter]

you dont read posts moshmoshskeetalution. I said nothing about actually carying out teh sexorzzzzzzzzz. Im saying there not even intrested in it. As in there not sexually interested in eacother. Which is a garuntee its not going to last. BT WE ALL READY NEW DATZ