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Green Tea · Post by **Green Tea** » Mon Nov 07, 2005 7:26 pm

I had a friend that did that to me.... I killed him by putting Mercury Chloride in his sandwich at lunch one day... Haven't had a problem since.

The X · Post by **The X** » Mon Nov 07, 2005 9:33 pm

My best friend of 14 years did that same thing to me.

He's now single, and admitted he did this.

Now, he's talking to someone else, but at the same time is trying to make up for lost time, which all in all, works out.

As far as girls only liking a-holes, all those who think that statement is false are wrong.......and right. It really depends on the person.

Most people like people who like to show out, from what I've read anyway. It shows they have a great amount of confidence and THAT is what girls like. It just the matter of how someone shows it that determines the character.

XxJennaxX · Post by **XxJennaxX** » Mon Nov 07, 2005 10:23 pm

I wouldn't date an overly nice guy b/c they're too much like me, and I don't like that. I think that dating a not-so-nice guy balances the relationship out. Casey and I have been dating forever, and I couldn't be happier. So yes, sometimes girls do like assholes, but then again, if the guy doesn't treat the girl like that, then it really doesn't matter in the first place.

Riot · Post by **Riot** » Mon Nov 07, 2005 11:10 pm

When I dated Casey, I was enamored when he whispered sweet nothings into my ears.

Green Tea · Post by **Green Tea** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 12:13 am

Riot wrote:When I dated Casey, I was enamored when he whispered sweet nothings into my ears.

Was this before or after me?!!? why did you never tell me?!

Mosh_Mosh_Revolution · Tue Nov 08, 2005 11:08 am

The funny thing about girls only going with assholes...

When you're an outside party, you can see that a guy is shady. And after your relationship is over with the asshole...well...hindsight is 20/20.

Unless he's a self-proclaimed asshole, as Pheadra was saying about Spazz (which ISN'T a bad thing!)... We really can't tell until something goes wrong.

I used to date a guy that I thought I was happy with. I couldn't see anything of a future with him, but I stuck around. I was too wrapped up in the fact that I was going out with an intelligent guy with the same major as me. I couldn't see the lies and manipulation behind the fact that I was happy to finally be going out with somebody again.

It ended bad. And it wasn't until the very, very tail end of the relationship that I had noticed something wasn't right and that it was probably time to back out. I don't think I've seriously wished deep harm upon somebody like I did him.

I'm dating somebody right now that I'm very, very happy with. Sure, I have little doubts that cloud my mind every so often. But they're doubts that he clears up very quickly...regardless of whether he knows it or not. I've never dated anybody before him that I could actually see spending...well...a lot of time with him. I can see a future there. I love him.

Pheadra · Post by **Pheadra** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 1:00 pm

Mosh_Mosh_Revolution wrote: Unless he's a self-proclaimed asshole, as Pheadra was saying about Spazz (which ISN'T a bad thing!)... We really can't tell until something goes wrong.

It ended bad. And it wasn't until the very, very tail end of the relationship that I had noticed something wasn't right and that it was probably time to back out. I don't think I've seriously wished deep harm upon somebody like I did him.

EXACTLY Hindsight it always 20/20. The comment I made wasnt to insult him, he just obviously isnt the one for me. And it wasnt towards the end till I really noticed things that he did that just didnt click with me.

Mosh_Mosh_Revolution · Tue Nov 08, 2005 1:45 pm

Pheadra wrote:
Mosh_Mosh_Revolution wrote: Unless he's a self-proclaimed asshole, as Pheadra was saying about Spazz (which ISN'T a bad thing!)... We really can't tell until something goes wrong.

It ended bad. And it wasn't until the very, very tail end of the relationship that I had noticed something wasn't right and that it was probably time to back out. I don't think I've seriously wished deep harm upon somebody like I did him.

EXACTLY Hindsight it always 20/20. The comment I made wasnt to insult him, he just obviously isnt the one for me. And it wasnt towards the end till I really noticed things that he did that just didnt click with me.

My problem with my previous relationship was that he was very...VERY...good at manipulating. Because he'd done a whole lot of it before I came along. He was cheating on me with the girl he ended up getting married to. So I don't know if he was cheating on me with her, or if he was cheating on her with me. -.-

You weren't trying to insult him. If people read your post for what it is...information you're providing pertaining to the topic at hand and your experience...they'll see that.

Ebola Gay · Post by **Ebola Gay** » Tue Nov 08, 2005 11:12 pm

Let's face it. I'm just too good for any of the ladies I've ever met. It's not that they arn't cool or anything, far from it. It's just that I'm tragically awesome.

sam · Post by **sam** » Wed Nov 09, 2005 8:14 am

i like how you use a word to describe something bad as good...it's so...tragically awesome.

question for the ladies: has the line "Hey my name is <insert man's name> let's fuck!" ever worked on you?

Pheadra · Post by **Pheadra** » Wed Nov 09, 2005 9:06 am

Ebola Gay wrote:Let's face it. I'm just too good for any of the ladies I've ever met. It's not that they arn't cool or anything, far from it. It's just that I'm tragically awesome.

Quoted for truth.

Yea there were many things that went wrong in Chris and my relationship...not just one big thing (like you guy cheating etc.) But really in a nutshell we just didnt click. Period.

And the "Hey my name is ___ lets fuck" have never really worked on me. I've been told it many times when Im drunk, but then I just respond with ".....Duuuuuude! you're name is ___ and your fucking ugly!" And then I skip (or at least attempt) to skip away.

Original Sin · Post by **Original Sin** » Wed Nov 09, 2005 1:28 pm

There are plenty of ladies that line would work on... plenty.

...And I don't want any of them. So, take your pick Sam. They're all
yours!

Post by Ho » Wed Nov 09, 2005 2:39 pm

Original Sin wrote:There are plenty of ladies that line would work on... plenty.

I'm not sure it would be proper to refer to those types of females as 'ladies.'

Original Sin · Post by **Original Sin** » Wed Nov 09, 2005 4:06 pm

Ho wrote:
Original Sin wrote:There are plenty of ladies that line would work on... plenty.
I'm not sure it would be proper to refer to those types of females as 'ladies.'

You're correct! I'm surprised I let that slip, actually...

Lady is an earned title... so that old saying 'don't hit a lady?' If some bitch smacks me and gets in my face, by god I've got no qualms back handing her. If you want to be treated like a lady, act like, and I'll be perfectly happy to act as a gentleman.

Fluffyumpkins · Post by **Fluffyumpkins** » Wed Nov 09, 2005 6:56 pm

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